I’m sure he is a great guy and I’m sure you love each other very much.
No one can ever anticipate how much having kids will change the dynamics of our relationships and often when I’ve written about my husband I’ve received comments telling me to leave him or he is a terrible person.
The thing is these men are not awful, my husband is the best person I know it’s just that he is limited in what he can do to support at certain times when I need it!
I hope others are kind to you in the comments as no one ever really knows a personal situation!